Ever heard someone tell you an absolutely crazy story and then follow it with an explanation as to why it is understandable or should be excused or even excepted? What is it about humans that we are able to justify our craziness but manage to have very little tolerance for other peoples nonsense?
I have listened to conversation where one crazy is trying to out crazy another crazy. This is nuts (I am not talking about the mentally ill here). If your entire world is out of whack. Get someplace quiet and do some serious soul-searching. Try to figure out the root of the problem. Brainstorm on some non violent, peaceful solutions to the problem and then take action.
Do not waste your time nor someone else’s brain space trying to convince someone you are in the right when you know you are in the wrong. If you made a mistake own up to it and take responsibility for it. Apologize, try to learn from it and not repeat it and move on. Yes it is easier to sit and complain. However, that will change nothing. May all the craziness in your life be short-lived, and not a chronic condition.